I figured it out , thanks to this reddit post :
Reddit - Dive into anything
I needed to copy the icc profile to /usr/share/color/icc/colord/
Identify the display ID with colormgr get-devices
Once the ICC profile was in the colord directory, I was able to get the object path with colormgr get-profiles
then make it load by default using
colormgr device-add-profile [Monitor ID] [Profile ID]
colormgr device-make-profile-default [Monitor ID] [Profile ID]